> would she be wrong for feeling like that I don't think so (although she might of course express her feelings in a way which is unhelpful/problematic/harmful)

> would she be wrong for feeling like that I don't think so (although she might of course express her feelings in a way which is unhelpful/problematic/harmful). I feel like if people realised that this was actually a consequence of self-identity centric models of gender, then they wouldn't advocate for them in the first place.