I'm not worried about being forced into doing something I don't want to do. I'm worried about wasting my time. I'm worried about getting someone's hopes up, onl

I'm not worried about being forced into doing something I don't want to do. I'm worried about wasting my time. I'm worried about getting someone's hopes up, only to upset them when I have to have a very awkward conversation where I tell them I'm not interested. I'm worried about an angry reaction or being accused of being transphobic if I have to do that. You claim that nobody is hiding information about their genitals. But while we can debate the semantics of "hiding", there are certainly lots of people who are not being open about that information. And I am arguing that the world would be a better place if everyone was just open about their genitals (and indeed their hormones). It shouldn't need to be a big deal. There's nothing shameful about having genitals that don't match your gender identity (and that would not put me off dating someone).