>The purpose of language is to communicate clearly, not to make you feel included. My brother was mentally ill his whole life; she is trans now. I showed her t

>The purpose of language is to communicate clearly, not to make you feel included. My brother was mentally ill his whole life; she is trans now. I showed her this comment and we both agreed. It’s a good way to put it. We can try and do both, but clearly has to come before feelings.