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Ask HN: Parents, did you have to quit your career to raise a family?
I’m looking to hear stories of parents who wanted to keep working, and enjoyed their career but due to high childcare costs/lack of work flexibility/other reasons, your only option was to quit and become a full-time stay at home parent.
If so, was a part-time job ever an option? What other scenarios did you consider to try to continue your career? Are you the mom or dad?
- buggythebug 4y agoNot sure what you want to get from this. Some people were financially able to keep going - others weren't. Some people wonder what if they didn't have kids and pursued their career - others wondering what it'd be like to have a family. Life in most cases is a series of tradeoffs. That being said, if you bust your ass you can do both like my father did.
- uberman 4y agoSo you're not interested in parents who kept thier jobs but made other tradeoffs?
- ernestipark 4y agoInterested to hear that as well.
- bediger4000 4y agoNo, but I definitely took big hits. Mediocre yearly reviews meant lower raises, and relegation to maintenance crews.