We’re emigrating soon, to Sydney Australia. I’m 49, she’s 45. I love the friends we have here and am going to miss them hugely. I’ve found friends through work

We’re emigrating soon, to Sydney Australia. I’m 49, she’s 45. I love the friends we have here and am going to miss them hugely. I’ve found friends through work, university, cycling, kids. I’ll need to ramp this up and be proactive because it won’t just happen without effort, given the demands on our time. But I’ll miss the 30-year relationships that take zero energy to be around, where you can take a mental snapshot of pure contentment.