Just wait for the transition to parenthood. If possible, try to time it with your closest friends because otherwise you'll rapidly run out of both 'lifestyle i

Just wait for the transition to parenthood. If possible, try to time it with your closest friends because otherwise you'll rapidly run out of both 'lifestyle in common' and time. (Tangentially: I've been thinking a lot about the theme of 'lifestyle in common' ever since both my parents and in-laws have retired and almost instantly assume that, because they can schedule 100% of their day, that we can too: my mother organised a family gathering for a Tuesday lunch - "Mum, I'll be at work, in the city, and the kids are at school...". This extrapolates in interesting ways as well)