> make you bitter or even resent the person And that's OK? I happen to think it's not, that bitterness and resentment hurt everyone involved, and I know that i

> make you bitter or even resent the person And that's OK? I happen to think it's not, that bitterness and resentment hurt everyone involved, and I know that it's possible to resist those feelings. How, exactly, does the person who succumbs get to play Good Guy?