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Communication is a two way street. In general, if you’re often getting responses that don’t have the information you need, then you need to figure out how to ch
by curiousllama 4y ago
Communication is a two way street. In general, if you’re often getting responses that don’t have the information you need, then you need to figure out how to change how you ask a question.
Here’s how I address your issues, when I encounter them:
> don’t directly address the point of your question
I clarify why I’m asking - in the future, I make sure the person I’m talking to has the same context as me before asking.
> don't stay focused to the point of the discussion
I make sure I understand what it is I’m asking. Usually, this happens when I ask a dumb question.
> don't some level of clarity in their train of thought and speech
I make sure we have a common intellectual structure/framework to use. Usually, this happens when there’s more complexity than I initially realized
> generally over-complicate matters by wandering off to other related subjects and extending the scope of the discussion
Could be a lot of reasons for this. Usually, I asked a big question and put them on the spot, so they’re rambling. I give them time to answer, and May schedule a meeting to discuss.
You may be noticing a pattern here: in general, if someone isn’t communicating clearly with me, it’s my fault, and I can fix it.