<<Forgiveness is letting go of the hope for a different past>>, various authors or variants of that quote (Iirc I heard it from Andrea Gibson poet). Anyway, I

<<Forgiveness is letting go of the hope for a different past>>, various authors or variants of that quote (Iirc I heard it from Andrea Gibson poet). Anyway, I thought the quote was in line with your "/I/ have moved on" phrasing. Not sure I really agree with the rest of your statements about grief and forgiveness, nor that I understood all of your intend. But I love this quote and think about it sometimes, and it seems like it would vibe for your conception of forgiveness.