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I'm turning 30 and I've produced no amazing art.

• dbattaglia 15y ago
  I'm turning 32 in March and I gotta say it's been all uphill the last 2 years. Trust me it really means nothing, don't let a number scare you. When I was in my late teens/20s I was way into the electronica act Underworld. I remember reading how their 20s/30s were spent doing a failed synth pop act (Fruer I think the name was). I son't think they wrote that classic Trainspoyting track "Born Slippy") until they were in their 40s. Maybe it sounds silly but that always stuck with me. I think the current tech startup scene puts an emphasis on youth that is turning into vanity a little. Don't let it get you down.. negative thoughts and fear are infinitely more crippling than any birthday. Keep it up and focus!
• ctdonath 15y ago
  I'm 44 today. I'm both sympathetic and dismissal of the author's plight. Comes down to one thing: PICK SOMETHING AND DO IT. And don't put off marriage.
  • ams6110 15y ago
    Marriage. Heh. It has the potential to seriously screw up your life, or be great. I can't advise entering into it on the basis of "I've put it off long enough."
  • davidhansen 15y ago
    And don't put off marriage. Why not? Elucidation on this point would be appreciated.
    • ed209 15y ago
      I would interpret it as "don't put your life on hold". Life is all relative, so when you compare stuff, you compare it to what you know. Getting married and having my daughter (currently 1yr) has given me something amazing to compare everything else I do to. So, I'm still just as hungry to create "the next big thing" but if it doesn't happen, fine, I already got the top prize. I guess the irony is that my pursuit of "the next big thing" is so that one day I can spend more time with my wife and daughter, but actually it's currently having the exact opposite effect...
    • ctdonath 15y ago
      Because life is finite and relentless. Because it's better to take opportunity before it's gone forever. Because some things take two, and if you don't go all in in time the other will move on, n'er to return. Because better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Because procreation is awesome. Because not procreating, ever, is (for most) an emotional black hole. Because your business doesn't give a damn about you, but your spouse always will. Because my daughter lying in front of me pestering me to play a game is the best thing ever, better than any technological or business success - and I'd best get to playing that game now. And (game now over) because, when she's just 3 months old, having a doctor wonder why you're still alive and whether you will be a week hence, the indescribable melancholy will be about her and her mother, not about whether a project was finished.
• Breefield 15y ago
  Hah, I'm 19 and relate to this sentiment far too well, except just thinking back on the last 4-5 years. I just spent the last 3 months away from the internet, and it was ridiculously mind-clearing. Burning Man turned into chasing a girl around the West Coast, turned into coming back to NYC and quitting my job so I can do more of what I want. I still haven't really gotten back into Twitter, Tumblr, Facebook like I was before I left. I'm not sure how I feel that mental clarity and this 'new idea ADD' are related. But I definitely feel more centered now. Reflection is key, and you're doing that. I think that's the first step toward doing what you want to do. [edit] I think what I'm trying to say is, eliminate distractions, reflect, and follow your gut.
  • jaysonelliot 15y ago
    Hey, as a 40-year-old, let me just say you're doing it right. The cool thing about being 19 is you could fuck up totally for, like, five years and still be young enough to start completely over. Bravo on learning to focus, bravo on chasing a girl around the West Coast, and bravo on following your gut. Keep it up, the 40-year-old you will thank 19-year-old you for it one day.
  • zobzu 15y ago
    if only more people would think that way... the world could be a better place. Self reflection, criticism, and being able to detach yourself from things that control our though and behavior.
• diego 15y ago
  Just because Steve Jobs said it, it shouldn't scare you. Steve Jobs himself did his best work in his 40s and 50s. If it's true that it's rare that older people produce "less amazing stuff" (big if), then it's probably because they simply lose the desire to do it. Family, boredom or health issues get in the way. I'm 42 and I'm as productive as I've ever been.
  • sliverstorm 15y ago
    What you lose in piss & vinegar, you can replace with experience and wisdom.
    • j45 15y ago
      Love the quote, thanks for sharing.
  • ibisum 15y ago
    I'm 41, have a family, and nothing is getting in my way from 'doing art'. In fact, I'm pretty sure the only perspective where my age and my 'artistic value' is going to be any sort of issue for me personally, is when I'm (hopefully) in my 90's and can no longer push pixels. Wonder if I'll look back on the time I spent wondering about the innocence of youth ..
• keiferski 15y ago
  Luckily, business isn't a field where only the young make an impact: Colonel Sanders started KFC at 65, Henry Ford started Ford Motor Company at 34...most entrepreneurs aren't 25. Also, consider architecture: most architects don't hit their prime until 50. But yeah, life is short, so don't waste too much time.
  • ams6110 15y ago
    Outside of tech, most people aren't even taken seriously until they are at least 40. It's a cliche but actually quite true.
• jaysonelliot 15y ago
  This really hits home for me. I could have written this, except that I can already see 30 a ways back there in the rear view mirror. I have just two things that I think are very important to say about this. 1) Don't worry about the fact that you're 30. That line about artists in their 30s or 40s is BS. There is no magical age at which you have to have produced your magnum opus. Never let the desire to "do something great" prevent you from doing the work. In fact, that's most likely what is keeping you FROM doing your great work. As someone who suffers from the same "idea addiction," I can say that one of the reasons people like us always chase new ideas is that we are trying to have our great moment, and are always afraid that if we buckle down and commit to one of our ideas, it might not be that Great Work, and we'll end up missing the next great idea when it comes along. So, we are always looking for the Best Possible Thing, and we don't get down to the work that really has to happen. 2) Even superstars have to do the dishes. We hear so much about the famous artists, businessmen, inventors, musicians, whatever, but all we hear about are their glories. It's boring to talk about all the days of the long grind, just plugging away to make the donuts. For every eureka moment, there are hundreds of hours of everyday work. I'm 40 years old, and I've produced, in my estimation, one "amazing art." It's a magazine I started and ran for eight years. In retrospect, I feel like it was a non-stop party, but if I really think about it, the only reason it succeeded was that I had no choice but to slug it out and put in the 90-hour weeks of boring copy editing, ad sales, bookkeeping, etc. It's because at the time, it was the ONLY IDEA I HAD. Now that I have dozens of ideas at any given time, ironically, I get none of them done. Don't try to create a Great Work. Pick something you enjoy and have fun making, and just make the hell out of it. If you're lucky, it might even be "amazing art."
• larve 15y ago
  i think that the personal value of art is making it and the importance it has to you. you can't hand down the judgment of how "good" your art is to somebody else, or in fact judge it at all. the only thing it will lead to is making yourself feel bad. the beauty is in making, not wanting.
• paulhauggis 15y ago
  I've had this same problem and I finally put a stop to it this year. I actually took one of my abandoned projects and used the code for a new venture. I always had this problem when I worked a corporate job. Mostly because I wasn't hungry for success. I always had that steady paycheck coming in and I could abandon my new project when I ran into the slightest difficulty. I quit last year with 2+ years salary and I've been working on the same two projects since.
• philjackson 15y ago
  Have you thought about finding a co-founder? edit: I'm being voted down? I was dead serious, a co-founder could help keep him on track, as could he them.
  • mechanical_fish 15y ago
    Perhaps someone was reacting to the fact that your original comment is such a truism on HN that it could have been written by the legendary PGbot? ;) But that judgement is unfair, because one of the characteristics of a truism is that it's often true.
• huxley 15y ago
  Amazing art is rare at any age. It is better and healthier to focus on improving your eye and your craft. I find encouragement in the quote by the painter of "The Great Wave off Kanagawa", Katsushika Hokusai: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hokusai http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hokusai "From around the age of six, I had the habit of sketching from life. I became an artist, and from fifty on began producing works that won some reputation, but nothing I did before the age of seventy was worthy of attention. At seventy-three, I began to grasp the structures of birds and beasts, insects and fish, and of the way plants grow. If I go on trying, I will surely understand them still better by the time I am eighty-six, so that by ninety I will have penetrated to their essential nature. At one hundred, I may well have a positively divine understanding of them, while at one hundred and thirty, forty, or more I will have reached the stage where every dot and every stroke I paint will be alive. May Heaven, that grants long life, give me the chance to prove that this is no lie."
  • nostromo 15y ago
    What a great counter to HN's (and America's) obsession with youth and instant gratification. Thank you for sharing this.
  • intenex 15y ago
    Yeah, too bad he didn't live that long. Which is exactly the reason we're so rushed ;).
    • huxley 15y ago
      For the record he did live to 88, which is a bit more than double my age (almost triple the original poster's age). I don't think he believed he would live to 150, but saying that expressed his feeling of something that was beyond his reach but which animated every moment of his life and his art. What I take from the quote is that existence shouldn't be a bell curve, with half or more of your life as an inevitable decline, but that your youth can be a foundation upon which to build knowledge and wisdom. You should end up smarter after many years, shouldn't you? To be able to look back and smile at one's bravado, knowing that you can do so much more now, with less effort and rush, and that if you continue striving, you'll do even more in the future. To deeply and truly understand your craft. That's what I'd want, a real life worth living, not to be the tech equivalent of a child star.
• felipemnoa 15y ago
  >>Today I need to get serious. No, drastic. Like a heroin addict going to rehab. This is my intervention. No more new ideas, no more domain names, no more client work, no more hypotheticals, no more I’ll do it tomorrow, no more wasted time. ”By the way, what have you ever done that’s so great?” I’ll have to get back to you. << You can still have lots of new ideas but no matter how many ideas you have you should have one and only one project that you are committed to at a time and make sure you finish it no matter how long it takes. One must realize that most ideas have a very similar chance of succeeding (slim to none) no matter how great they may seem at first and that one of the best ways to increase the chances for an idea to succeed is to commit to it. Meanwhile, while you are working on your main idea you will probably realize that a lot of the pieces you are building (at least in software) you will be able to re-use for some of your other ideas.
• ww520 15y ago
  This has struck a chord with me. New ideas are so addictive, but getting down to business to get one done takes a lot of effort. Sigh.
• zotz 15y ago
  Being an artist and musician, I'm a little disturbed at businessmen thinking they're producing art.
  • benmathes 15y ago
    Art is an extremely general and subjective term. I have seen code that is artful. I have seen paintings that are artful. No artist can lay claim to what is art in a field they may be unfamiliar with.
    • zotz 15y ago
      I've seen code that's poetic and artful. Computer science, like any science, has artistic elements to it, especially when economy of motion is utilized. Money isn't art. To quote Robert Graves: "If there's no money in poetry, neither is there poetry in money."
      • count 15y ago
        Creation of anything can be artistic. It can also be mundane.
  • jaysonelliot 15y ago
    Why should you feel that way? I've never heard a businessman say "I'm disturbed that artists think they're engaged in a business." There's nothing more noble about one profession or the other, every path has its place. It's not even worth getting into a discussion about "what is art" here (although I do believe that a creation that comes from your soul and expresses something about who you are and how you see the world to be art, no matter what your medium). Even if your definition of art doesn't include what someone else calls their art, there is no reason at all to be bothered by that. They're not taking anything away from what you do, so focus on loving what you make and don't worry about how others refer to themselves.
  • Tycho 15y ago
    The Robert Redford film, A River Run Through It, has an interesting take on what a person can call their 'art.' Worth a watch.
• nhashem 15y ago
  I turn 30 in 5 months and can completely identify with how you've felt. I too have the dozens of domain names for long-abandoned web applications for some idea that I thought was a radical spike of insight at the time. It's a vicious cycle. I get the idea. I register the domain name, already imagining a brilliant fully-featured yet astonishingly-easy-to-use product. I start cranking out code. But it takes some time. I realized some problems I thought were easy are harder. That takes more time. I realize a certain problem is exceptionally hard and will take me longer than I thought, so I hack together something that works for now. I realize yet another problem will take me longer than I thought, and a few weeks pass and I begin to feel my web application is just a series of hacks. If we're using the art analogy, rather than the beautiful and crisp design I envisioned, my canvas is filled with ugly smears and smudges that doesn't look anything like what's in my mind. And it's always a lot easier to just throw out the canvas and start something new, than to tediously work out improving those smears and smudges. So, perhaps one hopeful anecdote I can share: earlier this year I did start a project that I've finally been able to focus on. The only difference with this one vs. the others is that I saw a tangible return relatively early on. Two months after I worked on it, I made $72. That's basically a laughable number, except it's the first tangible return on the dozens of web applications I've started and abandoned for the past 5 years. From then on, there's been a mostly-positive correlation between "hours put into project" and "dollars earned," which has completely shifted my mentality. I've begun to take pride in those smears and smudges, knowing I'm already succeeding to some degree and it could be especially rewarding if I continue. I have no idea if this would work for you, or anyone else, but like others have said, this is a process. Everyone designs and creates at their own pace, and age seemed pretty meaningless to me. In fact it's now that I'm older, instead of 5 years ago, that I can begin to appreciate my limitations and have the patience to work with them, instead of ignoring the fact that they exist. And above all, be proud that in a world where many are content to maintain and manage (literally and figuratively), you have the desire and the ability to create and produce. Best of luck.
  • electromagnetic 15y ago
    It's worth remembering that web applications come a long way from conception to what the general public will see. Facebook is barely a hallmark of what Zuck was programming by himself. If you have a great idea the early adopters will recognize that. The general public won't. However those early adopters might give you enough money to keep developing so that 5 years from now the general public might be paying too.
• lucidrains 15y ago
  Ambition isn't everything to life. Being kind to others, surrounding yourself with friends and family, and seeking out new and fun experiences are all important and more permanent for your happiness. However, if you have truly figured yourself out and creating something is vital to your happiness (which is probably true given you are on ycombinator), by golly, understand yourself and reengineer your environment so that you can realize your full potential. Our society is kind of structured so you are thrown into a pipeline to water and tend to dreams that have already taken root; so if you want to realize your own dream, you need to really step outside the box and plant your own seeds. My 2 cents...
• kenjackson 15y ago
  There's been reserach looking at the age of which great science occurs and in more established fields it happens later in life. At age 30 you're just getting started. http://www.laboratory-journal.com/news/scientific-news/study-finds-breakthrough-scientific-discoveries-no-longer-dominated-very-young http://www.laboratory-journal.com/news/scientific-news/study...
• yungchin 15y ago
  "No more new ideas, no more domain names, ..." That sounds counter-productive. If you need good ideas, you better allow yourself to keep the ideas flowing (I suppose I believe there's something random about the quality of ideas, so to have a good one, you need to allow lots of 'em). What might be interesting is to look into something called "mental contrasting": it says you shouldn't just revel in a new idea, because envisioning the outcome gives you a good part of the gratification of actually achieving it. Instead, you should still allow yourself the envisioning, but afterwards contrast that with how far you are now.
• freshlog 15y ago
  May I suggest that you try approaching your ideas from a slightly different perspective: pick those that stem from a personal pain point, that way, you'll be personally vested. Whilst it's exciting to come up with novel ideas, nothing's more spurring than fixing and making your own life better. To illustrate, here are some projects that I've embarked on, which scratched a personal pain point and went on to be incidentally well liked by others enough to even pay for: http://freshlog.com http://freshlog.com I had to submit bug reports with attached screenshots in Basecamp (later Pivotal Tracker and Fogbugz), which involves many steps, so I made this. http://screendocs.com http://screendocs.com Customers were frequently asking how to do something and nothing beats sharing a webpage with step-by-step screenshots. Later I found Dropbox to be a great medium so I integrated with that. http://handpick.me http://handpick.me I felt that Facebook was a little too noisy and public to share personal links with my family and friends, so I made this. http://letsrecap.com http://letsrecap.com Whilst reading long articles, I'd want to select some text, mark it out and jump back between them easily. Whilst these are not runway successes with millions of dollars of profit, it certainly helps you build up the stamina to successfully ship and launch projects.
  • jaysonelliot 15y ago
    I just wanted to give you a high five for the photo of the Squishable T-Rex that thanked me for requesting a Recap beta invite. You made my fiancee squeal with joy.
    • freshlog 15y ago
      ^5! Lol, I got it for my wife, she loved it too!
• kevinalexbrown 15y ago
  Most nobel prize winners, even in theoretical physics, do their nobel-winning work after 40[1] So don't worry about that. Also: focus on doing what you love, not doing great things. Trying to do things just because everyone else thinks they're great just makes you a real-life karma whore. [1] http://www.scientificamerican.com/podcast/episode.cfm?id=age-for-nobel-winning-work-rises-11-11-08 http://www.scientificamerican.com/podcast/episode.cfm?id=age...
• jfoster 15y ago
  I used to have this affliction, but it's reasonably easy to overcome once you realize that you've got it. You just have to pick an idea and not shift attention to anything else until you've followed it through to some kind of conclusion.
• tlammens 15y ago
  Now try to do something for your friends/family, make them happy. Maybe that matters more in the end.
• city41 15y ago
  I feel like the internet creates a distortion here. Sites like HN make us feel like everyone is out there creating like crazy and doing all this amazing stuff. The reality is a very small minority of people are doing this. Most people don't create much of anything. At least, anything they could have a major break through on. Most people have day jobs and will always have day jobs. Most people come home from work and watch TV. It takes serious discipline to take an idea through to success. If I had to guess, discipline is a very important trait for startup success. Maybe you'll never be that disciplined, or maybe it's something you can work on. I can say for sure I am much more disciplined now (at the ripe age of 34) than in my 20s. Yet I still question if I have what it takes to truly do a startup. To the OP: I think you should just relax and enjoy yourself, let nature take over. Not every idea has to be worth a million dollars. My current project and the one just before it basically have no chance of ever making me any money. I did them because I enjoyed them. I think that is more important and more likely to lead you in a direction you want to go.
  • jaggederest 15y ago
    I mean, I feel pretty good when I take the trash out on the right day and finish a book - he's setting a pretty high bar if he's assume everyone has to make a startup, let alone succeed at it.
  • andrewflnr 15y ago
    Arguments based on "most people" are not compelling to me. To me, the correct standard to measure my performance against is my potential. And I know I fall far short. I feel I should have accomplished more by now, I could have. I know others have. I too feel the call of new ideas all the time, and have the same lack of discipline. I've brought precious few of my ideas to state that could possibly be called "done", and none to the glorious state I had imagined. I'm not even talking about making money, just making good stuff for people to enjoy. Perhaps the biggest difference between me and the author is that I'm still only 20 and still in school. To accomplish half the things I want to before I die, I'll have to grow a ton more self-discipline, and sometimes I wonder if I can do it. To tell me and people like me "relax, other people are lazy too" is not that helpful. It's true, "most people" never fully realize their potential. They have all kinds of bad habits and issues. When have other people's mistakes been an excuse for mine?
• mathgladiator 15y ago
  I turned 30 today, and I've find myself with a followed trail of crap. I spent 8 years while in high-school/college/grad school working on a game engine that I threw away. I spent a year working endlessly during graduate studies on a computer algebra system for college algebra students to provide step by step instructions. I spent a couple of years in a mathematics graduate program only to drop out and do a start-up. I was homeless for about a year while studying math (living in the CS department). When the start-up turned profitable, I got bored and left. Now, I look back at all the crap I've made, and I look forward to the things I'm going to make. The things I make each year get better. They get faster, more scalable, better, more beautiful. The key (I hope) is that no matter what, you don't give up on what you want to do. As I age, I'm getting more comfortable with that.
  • bch 15y ago
    > {8 years on on engine I threw away} * 8 years experience designing and producing a game engine, accruing knowledge of dos/donts > {homeless for a year...} * Practical experience living/working with extreme resource constraints > {Developed startup, quit} * Have produced profitable ventures from nothing -> profit, and in the process realized what really motivates me. Please don't sell yourself short (not just @mathgladiator, but anybody reading this). The expression "It's the journey, not the destination" can be applicable to both the past and the future. Keep on keepin' on.
  • reledi 15y ago
    > living in the CS department How'd you manage to do that?
    • mathgladiator 15y ago
      I was a GTA, and I lived in one of the small compute labs at k-state. Sometimes in my car. Sometimes, I'd go out to fields (deer can be pricks btw) and just sleep under the stars. Or, I'd go up the roof (usually locked, but not always).
      • reledi 15y ago
• dbattaglia 15y ago
  I'm turning 32 in March and I gotta say it's been all uphill the last 2 years. Trust me it really means nothing, don't let a number scare you. When I was in my late teens/20s I was way into the electronica act Underworld. I remember reading how their 20s/30s were spent doing a failed synth pop act (Fruer I think the name was). I son't think they wrote that classic Trainspoyting track "Born Slippy") until they were in their 40s. Maybe it sounds silly but that always stuck with me. I think the current tech startup scene puts an emphasis on youth that is turning into vanity a little. Don't let it get you down.. negative thoughts and fear are infinitely more crippling than any birthday. Keep it up and focus!
• DodgyEggplant 15y ago
  yeah, well make sure that you will not repeat this statement turning 31. go go go.
• softbuilder 15y ago
  The "30 freakout" is one of the great undiscussed traumas in our society. I don't know if this is just an American thing, or a product of western culture, or if this is universal. It needs to be addressed, and I wished people started talking about this to kids in high school. I believe this is a more significant problem than the mid-life crisis. For whatever reason (base 10 maybe?) we latch on to 30 as the time by which we should have some proof that we are on the right track. You can always beat yourself up at any age by comparing yourself to others. If you're in college, look at a Galois or a Joan of Arc and you're already a complete failure.
  • richardkmichael 15y ago
    +1 on this. I'm also over 30 and am still motivated to try and learn to do lots of new things well. I expect this to last my entire life, I'm just too curious to stop. Needing to reassure myself it's not "too late" is a sad consequence of the group-think you're describing.
  • gnaritas 15y ago
    > The "30 freakout" is one of the great undiscussed traumas in our society. Must be, because I've never heard of it, nor did I experience it; I don't expect 40 will be any different.
    • softbuilder 15y ago
      That sounds healthy. I would rather have done without it.
  • presidentx 15y ago
    Man, you totally said it. Someone with drive and who understands the "30 Freakout" should register the domain name and create a resource where people can learn about this extremely common condition. Again, excellent point.
  • sporkologist 15y ago
    I looked up "first world problems" in the encyclopedia and found this 30 freakout article. Fascinating.
• jeffool 15y ago
  I know the feeling. I'm 31 and beyond the middleground of fruitless endeavors to the point that so many things that I've felt should've been "what I put my life into" have turned out bad. And I'm not even a developer! (That was one of them, hello student loan.) But, you got to keep going. What else are you going to do, y'know? Best of luck to you, sir.
• AznHisoka 15y ago
  For your next idea, follow the lean startup principle. It not only works in terms of results, but it works from a morale point of view. When you got people telling you they can't wait for the app to be released, it gives you motivation to push forward. It's an antidote against self doubt, and wondering whether you're just crazy. Start a mailing list, and immediately get email addresses of people who want to hear when the app will be released. Hire a designer, and have him/her design the homepage so you got something impressive to look at. Something you can point at and say.. "This is what my idea is gonna look like".
• there 15y ago
  at least for me, an idea dies quicker when i never tell anyone about it. if i show a working example to someone or even just talk about the idea, there's a sense of wanting to complete it just to show that person even if he or she never asks me about it again. if i keep ideas to myself and they stall out halfway through, i won't look like i never finished them because nobody knew i started. i realized this years ago and is unfortunately why i rarely tell people about my ideas now until i at least have something to show. there are a lot of "show hn" posts on the /newest page that never even get an upvote and then roll off the page without any discussion. even if they make the front page, they stick around for a day and then we never hear about them again. maybe if there were a dedicated place to post those early-stage ideas, whether they are just paragraphs explaining the ideas or links to fully-functioning websites, and they were visible for longer than a day, it would provide motivation for others to complete their projects. like forrst.com but less focused on design projects. perhaps this would be better suited as a forum, where one can maintain one long-running thread per idea and update it over time, allowing others to give feedback on it. i've seen this on car forums where someone will have a thread spanning over a year, updating it every week as they build a new car or something. the navigation would need some improvement over a standard forum, but it could work. i'd be happy to build and host such a thing.
• ivan_ah 15y ago
  Ze Frank said: ideas = "brain crack" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24prm3XjVgk http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24prm3XjVgk
• j45 15y ago
  That's 99.99999% of the world too. It's okay. Create. Create. Create. Paint for the love of painting. An artist creates art for art's sake. Keep creating and FINISHING. P.S. I counted the 9's :)
• dasil003 15y ago
  Maybe it's all true, but there are many ways to look at things in life, and I think the OA is just being too hard on himself. Look around. Most people never create much of anything. It's easy to focus on "great art" that the Internet shoves in front of us and be demoralized. Our brains just aren't designed for the kind of sensory overload that we experience today, and even the greatest artist would feel belittled by the scope of what is at our fingertips today. But if your goal is to create great art, then first you must dedicate yourself to just creating art. It doesn't matter if these attempts are abortive, so long as you keep doing it. Just keep honing your craft. This is the only hope of ever creating anything great. It's not a guarantee, but if you give it your all then you should be proud. Reflecting honestly on the past is useful for course correction, but beating yourself up never helps.
• msutherl 15y ago
  I believe that this sort of sentiment is a symptom of not having answered for yourself the question: "what makes a good life good". spking is likely operating on a temporary definition imparted by his upbringing that goes something like this: "a good life is a life which, when seen from afar, appears to include a string of successful and well-respected achievements, each one better than the last". This perspective is, according to some of my friends from other continents, very "American". An alternative definition that is more conducive to well-being and productivity is one in which your subjective experience of life is considered more important than your life as seen and judged from afar (i.e. by others). To build such a definition, you must first analyze and become aware of how most decisions that you make are made with respect to how they are perceived from afar. Once you see this, you must realize that you are simply mistaken in privileging this perspective. How other people (and systems) judge what you do should only be of consequence to you to the extent that it impacts your life concretely. These judgements have no intrinsic meaning. For instance, spking's post is lamenting a self-inflicted anxiety about how his life appears from an external perspective. He does not mention how his failure concretely impacts his life, only how it impacts his feelings (which are based on his unconsidered and ultimately mislead beliefs). Following the recognition of this, you can then begin to make sense of the question: "what makes a good life good?" A good life is not a life that appears good, it is a life that, to you, feels good (i.e., you may remark "life is good"). So, to answer this question, you can begin by finding out what activities, situations and dispositions lead you to this sort of feeling (i.e. things you enjoy). You can then re-structure your life so as to maximize these things (rather than structuring it around only externally visible achievements). (A quick hint: more than 50% of these things have to do with your past, your friends, your family, significant others, significant locations, food, music, art, etc. You have a career and you do projects in large part to support these things. Taking a vacation and doing psychedelic drugs are two great ways to remind yourself of this.) That said, spking's projects are failing for a simple reason. What he truly desires is not for his projects to succeed, but to connect with people through his projects. The solution to this problem is to first focus on making a connection as soon as possible. A successful idea is one which takes a life of its own before you get bored of it. In the case of websites, people must begin using your project before you feel the desire to give up. Given this insight, it is best to start with a simple idea that can be deployed in a useful form quickly. Once a platform has been established – ideally with money coming in – more complex projects can be executed within that framework (if you're lucky, with the help of friends and investors)!
• sporkologist 15y ago
  Carl Friedrich Gauss and Richard Feynman both did great stuff until they were old. I knew from an early age that I would probably not even know what would be my career until I was at least 40, and learned the basics of art, math, computers, and music from about 10 to the present day, to be prepared (didn't know what for exactly). So now I'm 47 and making sax mouthpieces (I'm in the very center of my target market). I'm not sure what my point is with all this, but I guess what I'm saying is, just try a lot of stuff and eventually you will find that there is a demand for what you love to do. And make sure you maintain food and shelter.
• nikcub 15y ago
  let all the domain names go so that other people can use them (same of anybody else who is hoarding domain names) setup a site to give them away or to sell them (theres an idea!)
• mkr-hn 15y ago
  People who say they've never seen anyone do y after x didn't look hard enough. You'll live longer if you stop stressing over arbitrary points on an imaginary curve and focus on the long journey ahead of you and all the potential it offers.
• adrianbye 15y ago
  this isn't a big deal. just study project management and get really good at it. you'll learn how to execute well on projects and find yourself getting things completed
• alexwolfe 15y ago
  You don't need to do something unbelievable to be great. Don't let yourself get into this mindset that you need to keep up with the Joneses. Do something that makes you happy, that is the real measure of success. The reality is that no matter what you do, even if you do it great there will always be someone better. So you have to do something because you get enjoyment out of it not because your peers approve or because it might garner some praise for a few minutes. You're young. Yes you are. 30 is a great place to be and for most people the real beginning of their careers. If you have your heart set on building something cool/useful/etc then you just need to focus (don't beat yourself up), just focus. Look at the list of things you have and pick 1. Don't do any other projects (other than work of course) until you finish. You'll find that in a year from now you'll have plenty to be proud of and that's not bad for a 31 year old. Good luck. PS. I found this article very helpful when I've had these same thoughts: http://techcrunch.com/2011/12/03/how-entrepreneurs-can-increase-productivity-by-500/ http://techcrunch.com/2011/12/03/how-entrepreneurs-can-incre...
• blhack 15y ago
  Alan watts has something important to say about this... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ERbvKrH-GC4 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ERbvKrH-GC4 You haven't been failing, you've been dancing. This is the point. Enjoy it and stop waiting for the payoff.
• ccarpenterg 15y ago
  The probability of success (ie: creating a startup and selling it for 100 millions) is conditioned by two major factors: (a) a good idea (and the right implementation) and (b) the preparation of yourself. So rather than trying to get the next big idea instead work on solving interesting problems and improve your skills and capacities. And take some risk!
• halayli 15y ago
  Here's my take: 1. Instead of focusing on the idea, focus on the execution. 2. Pick a niche that has a relatively easy entry, and create something better and/or cheaper. Perfect your execution so that your product becomes the obvious choice in the market. 3. Get into an already proven market instead of trying to prove your idea and chase it. 4. Don't expect you'll be alone in any market, you always have competitors. Wherever there is money, there is a competitor. 5. Stay away from highly competitive markets. 6. Whatever you choose, make sure to answer these questions first: "Who's my audience?", and more importantly "How can I reach them". Because whatever you create, if it's hard to reach your audience then your audience won't know about you. Personally, I'd pick a market where I can reach its audience via online advertising, this way my success is not dependent on the media talking about my product and spreading the word. 7. Stay away from ideas/markets that requires virility. Those markets are very difficult to enter.
• njharman 15y ago
  That is ok.
• bpm140 15y ago
  At 30 I was miserable because I hadn't done anything massive either. Then I sold a company for $12M when I was 34, started a company at 35 that is now (three years later) at a $1M monthly run rate and was an advisor to a billion-dollar public company. It's a marathon, not a sprint. You never know what's coming up just over the next hill.
  • poundy 15y ago
    Well done, thanks for sharing!
• politician 15y ago
  Rather than agreeing with everyone else in this thread (I do), let me ask a serious question. Does anyone think Adderall would help? Focus on one idea, that is. I find myself thinking it would.
• theviciousfish 15y ago
  art has nothing to do with money. The only thing you can do, is find what you love. Once you do that, you practice. You practice every day until your hands bleed, but you don't care, because you love it. Loving something is not instantaneous, it is a combination of chance itself, and a decision to make a commitment to being better at what you do than anyone else. Once you have enough practice, inspiration is inevitable. The problem is, if you are focused on money, you are likely to give up on practice for the sake of practice, and you will be too busy trying to make a buck that true inspiration will pass you by. Inspiration is a subtle force, and retreats in the face of greed.
• jscore 15y ago
  32 here. 1. You finished this blog post, so you know how to finish things. 2. Turn off all mindless distractions for a month or more (fb, twitter, forums, even hn) so you can figure out something important that you can focus on. You've read enough and don't need to keep reading more motivational material. 3. Start a small project and finish it. This would help you to convince yourself that you can complete shit. 4. Use that feedback loop to continue building bigger projects. 5. Life IS really that short so learn to live in the moment (I've been there but am getting a bit better with this).
• erichocean 15y ago
  The drive that compelled you to write this blog post is the same drive that will, when the time comes, kick you off your ass to actually get stuff done. And it'll be awesome. tl;dr You're doing it right.
• pacomerh 15y ago
  One common problem developers have is that they try to do everything themselves and they have too many projects in their head, so just make an effort and forget about the other ones that won't happen anyways. Get one good project and divide it in really really easy tasks, and when you finish each part enjoy the success and move on slowly, it's better to move slow and fnish than moving fast and not go anywhere. My grandmother used to tell me "Don't rush, I'm in a hurry", wise words.
• x3c 15y ago
  I dont know how much this applies to the author but I often feel like it hits home for me: “Most people would succeed in small things if they were not troubled with great ambitions.” -Henry Wadsworth By that, I dont mean that you should have no ambitions, just dont get troubled by it. What I mean is, dont postpone your today's work for what you may want to work on tomorrow. Finish the small things before dreaming of the next big thing. Small things like your current job, your social obligations, your relaxation time and the time to hone your skills. Manage your time better, every minute you can spare, invest it in your future. You won't have to go looking for inspiration, mundane things can be a great catalyst for radical/new ideas. You'll have your moment, just gain enough discipline and build a secure nest egg; so when your moment comes, you'll be prepared to take the leap. All the best. [Edit: pretty printing]
• waterlesscloud 15y ago
  I'm 43. I've produced nothing great. But I'm still working at it. And I'm having a lot of fun along the way. I'll get there or I won't, but I'm enjoying the ride.
• kloc 15y ago
  I turned 30 today and this is the top post on HN (wow).Everything the OP says applies to me too.Its high time we become doers from thinkers.
• andrewfelix 15y ago
  My Father didn't get his degree until he was thirty. That was over 20 years ago. Today he gets an invitation to travel overseas every two weeks to help teachers teach English. He educates, runs a multi-million dollar business, has 3 successful children and 2 healthy grand children. You have a lot more to look forward to. Enjoy the first day of the rest of your life.
• philwelch 15y ago
  Web apps aren't art. Startups aren't art. Almost no one under 30 starts a successful business, and almost no one over 30 starts a successful business either, though the >30 group does have an advantage. So use it.
• OoTheNigerian 15y ago
  I turn 29 in a few weeks. When I turned 27 I wrote a post similar to yours http://oonwoye.com/2010/01/12/a-birthday-rant-why-i-feel-too-old-at-27/ http://oonwoye.com/2010/01/12/a-birthday-rant-why-i-feel-too.... I planned to go full throttle with my startup that year. However, some circumstances made me leave the startup. I am just getting back on track. Here is what has made me move so fast and stay focused in the past 2 months. I struck myself a deal. If I do not launch anything, I will not blog, Tweet or Facebook. Things I loved doing but gave me room for distraction. I suggest you do same. Next year is my last year at doing something great "in my twenties" it is so symbolic for me. So I hope that my efforts will pay off this coming year. I leave you with this quote. "The best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago, the second best time is NOW"
• nashequilibrium 15y ago
  " I read stuff like “it’s rare that you see an artist in his 30s or 40s able to really contribute something amazing” from Steve Jobs, and it has the uncomfortable effect of simultaneously depressing me and jolting me with a sense of panic." I tend to disagree a bit with this quote. This article called 'late bloomers' explains most of my reasoning: http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2008/10/20/081020fa_fact_gladwell http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2008/10/20/081020fa_fact_...
• nashequilibrium 15y ago
  " I read stuff like “it’s rare that you see an artist in his 30s or 40s able to really contribute something amazing” from Steve Jobs, and it has the uncomfortable effect of simultaneously depressing me and jolting me with a sense of panic." I tend to disagree a bit with this quote. This article called 'late bloomers' explains most of my reasoning: http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2008/10/20/081020fa_fact_gladwell http://www.newyorker.com/reporting/2008/10/20/081020fa_fact_...
• dariencrane 15y ago
  Realize that the amount of "art" you've created is altogether meaningless if you have a shallow experience of life. Let your self-esteem become unhinged from what you perceive as success, and just enjoy your time. If you have a single creative bone in your body you will create something amazing in due time. I recommend reading Siddhartha again and then getting back to work!
• toddmorey 15y ago
  "If you hear a voice within you saying, 'You are not a painter,' then by all means paint and that voice will be silenced." -- Vincent Van Gogh
  • gruseom 15y ago
    Van Gogh was 30 when he wrote that in a letter to Theo. That was two years before he painted his first major painting and several more before he did anything most of us would recognize as van Gogh. http://vangoghletters.org/vg/letters/let400/letter.html http://vangoghletters.org/vg/letters/let400/letter.html (That website is a mammoth undertaking. Too bad the translations I've seen there are awful. They're scholarly, but read like wrung-out dishrags.) Here's some more van Gogh (http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Vincent_van_Gogh http://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Vincent_van_Gogh): I tell you, if one wants to be active, one must not be afraid of going wrong, one must not be afraid of making mistakes now and then. Many people think that they will become good just by doing no harm — but that's a lie, and you yourself used to call it that. That way lies stagnation, mediocrity. Just slap anything on when you see a blank canvas staring you in the face like some imbecile. You don't know how paralyzing that is, that stare of a blank canvas is, which says to the painter, You can't do a thing. The canvas has an idiotic stare and mesmerises some painters so much that they turn into idiots themselves. Many painters are afraid in front of the blank canvas, but the blank canvas is afraid of the real, passionate painter who dares and who has broken the spell of 'you can't' once and for all. Life itself, too, is forever turning an infinitely vacant, dispiriting blank side towards man on which nothing appears, any more than it does on a blank canvas. But no matter how vacant and vain, how dead life may appear to be, the man of faith, of energy, of warmth, who knows something, will not be put off so easily. He wades in and does something and stays with it, in short, he violates, "defiles" — they say. And some more: What am I in the eyes of most people — a nonentity, an eccentric, or an unpleasant person — somebody who has no position in society and will never have; in short, the lowest of the low. All right, then — even if that were absolutely true, then I should one day like to show by my work what such an eccentric, such a nobody, has in his heart. That is my ambition, based less on resentment than on love in spite of everything, based more on a feeling of serenity than on passion. Though I am often in the depths of misery, there is still calmness, pure harmony and music inside me. And here is something that speaks to the struggle of the OP: There is a great difference between one idler and another idler. There is someone who is an idler out of laziness and lack of character, owing to the baseness of his nature. If you like, you may take me for one of those. Then there is the other kind of idler, the idler despite himself, who is inwardly consumed by a great longing for action who does nothing because his hands are tied, because he is, so to speak, imprisoned somewhere, because he lacks what he needs to be productive, because disastrous circumstances have brought him forcibly to this end. Such a one does not always know what he can do, but he nevertheless instinctively feels, I am good for something! My existence is not without reason! I know that I could be a quite a different person! How can I be of use, how can I be of service? There is something inside me, but what can it be? He is quite another idler. If you like you may take me for one of those.
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• wensing 15y ago
  I got married at 21, had my first child (of 4) at 21, and had the idea for Stormpulse at 23. I've now worked on it for 7 years and turned 30 last month. I feel like I've accomplished a lot in terms of having a very full home life and a very interesting project, but I still feel a lack in terms of having things "solved"--Stormpulse is just now finding its legs and I'm nowhere near being the father or husband I hope to become. I think I assumed I'd have these things more figured out by now, so I can relate. But I remain confident that each year holds better things than the last.
  • count 15y ago
    If it's any consolation to you, Stormpulse is basically the only place I go for Hurricane updates now!
• hpexin 15y ago
  I think being involved or attached in such an inspiring community is really important. True, too many people out there have never ever dreamed of creating anything. However, here, after reading so many articles about the passion to invent, I am too influenced to do something.
• ChuckMcM 15y ago
  The sad thing is, you tell someone "Someday you're going to suddenly wake up and realize that 10 years of your life has gone by and you've not done anything you wanted to do." And at the front side of those 10 years its really hard for them to hear, at the back side its catastrophically depressing for some. It is the essence of the mantra "You are going to be dead a year from now, so put your affairs in order." kind of motivation that folks use to force them to finish things they start. Life is the journey, at some unpredictable time the journey stops.
• peterwwillis 15y ago
  Stop trying to force yourself to come up with ideas and just live your life. Nothing in life is so serious that you should be sweating yourself over it, save maybe an incurable disease (which you can't cure so again, don't sweat it).
• tsunamifury 15y ago
  I think the author is conflating two issues here 1 A sense that he does not finish things 2 That he should be further along in life The second is nonsense as there is no set point where anyone should 'be' in life. Some contribute early, some late, some after they are dead! The first is a real problem, one I've struggled with. The way I've attempted to overcome it is, when I got my next idea I wanted to try out I told myself the goal wasn't to be successful, rather it was to finish. I wanted to see something done and launched no matter how terrible I felt it was. I found that overcoming the initial abandonment period required two things 1 a partner 2 skin in the game With your next great idea, I'd advise you prioritize finishing it and invest in the above two points to get you there.
• danielcrenna 15y ago
  I wrote a little response for you, which I hope will help in some small way. You're a really brave dude, and you're clearly not alone. (http://danielcrenna.com/post/14394588037/code-soloist-19-interventions http://danielcrenna.com/post/14394588037/code-soloist-19-int...)
  • intour779 15y ago
    http://www.intour.com.vn/dich-vu/thu-tuc-lam-visa-xin-visa-visa-di-cong-tac-lam-visa-di-chau-au-dich-vu-lam-visa-gia-re-lam-visa-nhanh-chong.html http://www.intour.com.vn/dich-vu/thu-tuc-lam-visa-xin-visa-v... http://www.intour.com.vn/dich-vu/dich-vu-lam-the-apec-thu-tuc-lam-the-apec-lam-the-apec-gia-re-the-apec.html http://www.intour.com.vn/dich-vu/dich-vu-lam-the-apec-thu-tu... https://sites.google.com/site/shopthoitranggiare/thoi-trang-nu/ban-si-quan-jean-nu-gia-re https://sites.google.com/site/shopthoitranggiare/thoi-trang-...
• zobzu 15y ago
  Like million of humans. Congrats. It.does.not.matter. :-)
• 1point2 15y ago
  This seems applicable for the 30 year old person to read: http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3365933 http://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=3365933
• peteforde 15y ago
  Lots of opinions and advice here already. Some of it is good, but I felt strongly compelled to post a dissenting view based on my practical experience as both an "ideas guy" and as a successful founder of several companies. It's true that ideas are worthless without execution, but I get bent out of shape every time someone spouts this mantra because it's only half of the story. A bad idea well executed is still a bad idea. You can waste a huge amount of time, money and energy throwing your passion into a bad idea. Some of the most toxic advice is that you should just "pick one or two of your ideas and turn the volume up to 11 on them for a few years, no matter what!" aka "just start, you can always pivot". That's totally bullshit in the real world. Reputations get tarnished, and every opportunity you take costs all of the other opportunities you didn't take. Now, that also doesn't mean that you should curl up in the fetal position and hope the world stops asking hard questions. It's possible that one of your ideas is the next Facebook, but the realistic truth is that statistically you will never dream up the next Facebook. And that's okay. In fact, it's great. You can start forgiving yourself now. My feeling is that it's perfectly fine to be addicted to having ideas and suppressing your excitement long enough to analyze the ideas for flaws. This isn't time wasted not executing, it's time invested in two valuable activities: practising the skill of spotting deadly flaws and rolling the dice on another idea. This is a much more pragmatic opportunity cost than believing that the world is counting on you to deliver the next major cultural wave, and soon. Let's say that you realize none of your ideas (so far) are the next WWW or automobile. Nobody is going to be disappointed in you for teaming up with another person to build their idea. Insisting on building your own idea to feel validated is like refusing to adopt kids with a different skin color — it doesn't hold up to unbiased scrutiny. So my advice is that you should stop beating yourself up and be open to opportunities that originate amongst your self-selected, startup-inclined friends.
• foxylad 15y ago
  Get real. I'm going to sound harsh, but if you're choosing to spend time angsting about this, you're probably better working for someone else than yourself. You aren't making good decisions on how to spend your time, which means you will be badly handicapped in any venture that you control. If you want to prove me wrong, get hungry. Put all your money less enough to pay rent, expenses and ramen for six months into a long term savings account that you can't touch for a year. So in six months, you are going to be starving, out on the street, and your smartphone will be repossessed... unless you perform. Whoa... OK, lets analyse all these amazing ideas. Ask female friends which ones have legs, work out which one is most likely to start earning you enough money to keep you off the street in six months. Forget trying to raise venture capital - if you can't show revenue they won't be interested, if you can show revenue you don't need them anyway. Then get to it. By now you only have 5.5 months left to build this darn thing, 5.5 months before you starve. Design, code, network all hours of the day and night. Phone every new customer and ask them what they like and don't like about the product. Every thing you do, you ask "is this helping me build revenue?" before you spend a second doing it. Lying in bed before you go to sleep, you're figuring out how to do some A/B testing to improve signup rates, not worrying about whether you're too old to produce amazing art. Then six months is up. You have enough revenue coming in to pay for the next month's rent, expenses and ramen - congratulations. Or you've learned that even with your best idea and effort, you couldn't make ends meet. You get regular job, and make a difference to the world that way. Good luck to you, and if anything I've said helps at all, let me know how you go.
• buro9 15y ago
  The difference between 29 and 30 is one day. If one day is all the difference in the world and the source of so much personal stress about what you've achieved, then ask yourself: What did you do today? If every day you do something, then one day you will find that you have achieved things that once seemed like a leap, but viewed from day by day were never more than the smallest increments over the day before.
• ofca 15y ago
  hell. I have the same feeling and I am only 23...
• CrazyInu 15y ago
  Maybe people don't produce art after 30 of 40, but there are hundreds of millionaires and billionaires who made their riches in their 50s, 60s, and 70s.
  • kevin_morrill 15y ago
    Frank Lloyd Wright was considered washed up and done in his 30s after a successful period. Most of his greatest works came late in his life. The Guggenheim museum, just as an example, was designed just before his death. Ray Kroc was already in his 50s when he bought out McDonalds and turned it into the success we know of now. The point of seizing the moment is to make the most of right now, not make you feel guilty about the past.
• spking 15y ago
  OP here. I want to express my gratitude for all of the great comments. There's a lot of wisdom and insight here, and it's comforting to know that I'm not the only one who feels (or has felt) this way.
• egypturnash 15y ago
  Frank Herbert was born in 1920. It took him five years to research and write his second published novel; it was first published as a serial in 1963. That book was called "Dune". You do the math. ---- When I was 25 I moved out to California to attend animation school. When I was 30 I'd been a part of the first wave of dotcom boom funded Internet cartoons, watched some of my colleagues go in to TV work, and burnt out. When I was 36 I drew a Tarot deck[1]. The year I hit 40, it got published internationally. I think it's adequate. Some people react to it a lot more strongly than that. Success at 25 is the exception, not the rule. Very few people are that driven. Many more labor under others for a time, slowly honing their craft until they make something amazing. Learning to identify the ideas worth focusing on for a whole year is an important, subtle skill. [1] http://egypt.urnash.com/tarot/ http://egypt.urnash.com/tarot/
• Spearchucker 15y ago
  I find this thread fascinating. In over 20 years in the formal IT sector I've had one idea, and have stuck with that single idea for seven years. It started with frustration at a piece of software I was using on my phone at the time (a Nokia 9210 Communicator), and has since been influenced by books I've read and other apps I've used. I quit my job at Microsoft in September last year to work on it full time. Granted, over the years I've had a few more ideas - most of them spin-offs of the framework I created, but all have been put on hold until I can ship v.1 of the current idea. I guess it's just another example my tendency to assume that eveyone else thinks like I do.
• gavanwoolery 15y ago
  In all seriousness, there is a slim chance that you have bipolar disorder. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bipolar_disorder http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bipolar_disorder Or not. Never try to self-diagnose or self-medicate - seek professional help if you think this is the case. I am the same way - I have many (failed) ideas, and an obsession with creating new ones, although fortunately I do not carry the aforementioned disorder :)
  • gavanwoolery 15y ago
    Also, the road to success is paved with failures. It is better to fail many times fast than continue working on an idea that is bound to be a failure. With every failure, you learn better how not to fail. The cure I found for manic idea creation: work on something that you are really, really interested in. I have been working for the same idea for almost 8 years, on and off - the only problem is that I keep scrapping, rebuilding, and rethinking it :)
• billpatrianakos 15y ago
  As a recovering heroin addict (3 years sober) and a programmer I can say his metaphor is right on. I'm approaching 30 soon too and I get what he's saying. You buy some domain and a VPS for some awesome idea you're going to launch and then between your client work and running your own business all of the sudden everything falls apart. I think the problem is working on too many projects at once. It can be close to impossible to keep track of your clients and 5 of your own projects all at once. I know that when I start a project I need to focus on it all the way or I lose steam. You get in the zone, you're familiar with all the inner workings and you're able to be productive. If you try to switch to a different project, especially if it's a half finished one, you have a hard time getting comfortable again. You end up having to relearn the code (in a way) and get into that different flow the other project had. Also, every project has a personality. At least in my mind. It's hard to switch between projects with different "personalities" because there a lot of mental strain involved in making that transition to, say, a straight laced organization web app and a fun and exciting social network for just you and your friends. Then there's always that temptation to learn some new technology, rent a dedicated server or get a VPS so you can be in total control and that's just sexy. I know I get a nerd boner whenever I get a new Linode and start setting it up exactly how I like it. The decisions that come with all of this setup and execution can lead to analysis paralysis.
• tmroyal 15y ago
  This reminds me of that article by Malcolm Gladwell about Cézanne and Picasso. Picasso is depicted as the visionary who revolutionizes artistic expression in his teens and Cézanne is a painter who struggles his entire life and doesn't achieve a breakthrough until he is much older. It might provide context to a discussion like this: http://www.gladwell.com/2008/2008_10_20_a_latebloomers.html http://www.gladwell.com/2008/2008_10_20_a_latebloomers.html Yet, I wonder if achievement is evenly distributed across the range of all ages, and what is not evenly distributed are mentions of the achiever's age when mentioning her or his achievement. If artist A revolutionizes the art world at the age of 23 and artist B does so at the age of 60, would it not be more likely to see when the respective artists achievements are mentioned? i.e.: Artist A revolutionized the art world and he did so at the age of 23 Artist B revolutionized the art world. Anyway, the statement "I'm 30 and haven't done anything, so I won't" is based on a number normative assumptions. Not everyone is 30 finds herself in the same set of circumstances. Further, normativity is antithetical to creation, so a sentiment behind this post is contradictory. Ultimately, the answer is to have ideas that are easy to follow through but are not obvious. That's how you look like a prodigy, i think.
  • TheCowboy 15y ago
    The younger a person is who experiences success, the more likely it will be emphasized and repeatedly mentioned for various reasons. No one usually cares about the ages of people who succeed after their youth.
• riledhel 15y ago
  This has turned to be one of the most interesting conversations on HN in the past month, at least for me. It made my day and I wanted to thank everyone for sharing their two cents. As someone approaching 30 in a couple of years this reflected some of my feelings about work and life. Gladly I walk out today having learned something about life.
• uptown 15y ago
  I just turned 35, and have a very similar story. One thing I've found that helps is to start talking about your ideas with others. Not only does it give you insight into how others perceive your ideas and potentially help improve the concept, but it also gives you a certain amount peer motivation from friends and family to follow up on your progress. If they won't naturally do this, ask them to ... tell em it'll help you stay motivated, and ask whether you can follow up in a few weeks/months/whatever to show them what you've accomplished. Ultimately, the message I needed to get into my own head was that nobody was going to build my idea for me ... so if I wanted to see it as something more than a Photoshop mockup, I just needed to break it into pieces, and start knocking them down.
• alexkearns 15y ago
  My advice on completing projects: Developing a big web project can be a bit like running a marathon badly. You put on a giant chicken outfit. Run around trying to trip over celebrities for the cameras. And nearly die of a heart attack. Okay, maybe that's just me. No, seriously, let me start again. Developing a big... bit like... running a marathon. You are full of energy at the start and set off at a frantic pace. Before you know it, you have the concept design and prototype done. Then you begin to start on the database hierarchy, the sign up forms. This is tiring work and soon your pace begins to slow. But you are still excited by the project so you push on. There comes a point however on most large projects - usually around two-thirds to completion - when your enthusiasm begins to wane. You look into the distance and cannot see the end in sight. There is so much work to do and this work is the boring detailed stuff rather than fun conceptual work. You begin to wonder if the project is any good. You begin to get distracted by Facebook, Hacker News, flash backs of the mangled dying Action Man you threw out of the window with only a paper bag as a parachute when you were a kid (Okay, that's just me again). In short, you are flagging and unless you pick yourself up soon you will be retiring from this race. NEVER GIVE IN This is usually when a good manager will step in and give his team of developers a good motivational talk (or a kick up the butt). But when you are working on your own projects as part of a startup, when you ARE your own manager, inviting yourself into your own office for a motivational talk does not usually do much good and could easily get you taken away by men in white coats (for me, writing this from Bradlington Mental Asylum, this is no longer a problem). It is easy to give up at this stage. So how do you motivate yourself in such a situation? How do you pick yourself up from the road, and crawl, if necessary, crawl, crawl, until bloodied and weeping, you inch over the finishing line on your stomach, a slimey trail of your inards in your wake (sorry, more flashbacks. My teddy this time. Tug of war with sis. Big Ted never was the same again). Yes, how do you do this... Stop looking at me. Like, I have the slightest clue. What, you were expecting - because you had invested the time to read this far - that I magically would have the answer to one of the most intractable questions in software development - nay, in human psychology: how to motivate yourself and others. Or maybe, if you hadn't quite got the gist of this article, you were wondering how I could help you finish a marathon when, two thirds of the way through, your legs are buckling like a soldier who has taken one direct to the head. To the latter, I've heard that energy drinks are pretty good. Else, take a bus - nobody will probably notice and the money is only going to charity anyway. Later, you might want to invest in some smart drugs... As for the former, get out of here - there's only one way you are going to finish your project, and that is by doing it. So stop reading frivilous articles like this, and get down to some serious coding.
• jimmyxt 15y ago
  Great to read its not just me! There is hope, I'm now 4 months into a startup which is my best commitment yet. The key difference for me: Involve other people. Firstly working in a team makes me more accountable. Second, having users sign up and use it really motivates me. Not that its easy, its still hard at times. Which is fantastic because it means Im outside my comfort zone and getting some much needed personal growth.
• plasma 15y ago
  I find myself constantly writing down ideas in a notepad/phone/document. Many of them are simple, one liners to remember the idea. Others have expanded (even on my phone) into multi-page ideas, features, things to consider. That helps me write down things to work on at a later date. I let the idea bake for a moment and when I'm really passionate about it I will give it a go. Each failure though helps me realise what to look out for next time. For example, like you, I also run out of momentum. You need to pick projects that are _achievable_ in a few months (especially when you're putting in after-hours work, and it isn't your day job) to avoid picking up a project too big for the amount of time you can afford. I still write down those huge ideas, who knows if I will ever do them, but I don't pick them up (or totally forget them, either) because they are too much work to do right now. Pick the projects that sound good (and cut feature's you don't really need for launch), do it incrementally, even with a friend if that helps you stay on track, and make sure it's something you can do in a reasonably short amount of time.