You're right, I should have been more careful and I get the irony. The comment sounded like it was a defense by the parent and I made an assumption. However I

You're right, I should have been more careful and I get the irony. The comment sounded like it was a defense by the parent and I made an assumption. However I don't consider it giving someone a hard time. I think of it as calling out people who decrease the quality of the conversation. You could throw that accusation back at me for my mistake but it is just that, a mistake.