To be clear, my intent is not to single you out. I apologize if my reply came across this way. I tried to phrase it in a neutral way but in hindsight this was

To be clear, my intent is not to single you out. I apologize if my reply came across this way. I tried to phrase it in a neutral way but in hindsight this was not sufficient in the comms department. My hope was to shed light on this phenomenon and learn how we, collectively, may do better. Seriously, my bad. Please don't stay quiet when your intentions are good! Speaking up can be the first step towards a better future. <3