>I don't believe I was particularly aggressive. "You don't know what you're talking about" is aggressive and rude; like you're calling them stupid. "Actually,

>I don't believe I was particularly aggressive. "You don't know what you're talking about" is aggressive and rude; like you're calling them stupid. "Actually, I don't think that's right", along with some, "Can you clarify?" is not aggressive, and welcomes them into a conversation. >I called them out. That's how it should work. There's a way to do that constructively. See above.