> Always be kind to yourself. You can be stern too. But always kind. You’re right, and this is something I often forget to do. You’re also right that my wife

> Always be kind to yourself. You can be stern too. But always kind. You’re right, and this is something I often forget to do. You’re also right that my wife looks at things through a NT lens, and I often wonder if I wouldn’t too if I was NT. I don’t blame her at all, but it undoubtedly creates friction that seems unhelpful or unnecessary. Thanks for the kind words and reminder to be kind.