1) The OP made the claim that our genes carry our experiences onto our children. I've never experienced that and AFAIK it doesn't happen. 2) Raising a child do

1) The OP made the claim that our genes carry our experiences onto our children. I've never experienced that and AFAIK it doesn't happen. 2) Raising a child doesn't give the child your experiences either. I have no memory of what my father experienced in his life based on him raising me. AFAIK it doesn't happen to other people either.