Less a mental health problem than a mere insecurity. Amateur hour psychology: It sounds avoidant to me, an attachment style that is the likely the product of be

Less a mental health problem than a mere insecurity. Amateur hour psychology: It sounds avoidant to me, an attachment style that is the likely the product of being encouraged to be independent and self sufficient by caregivers (emotionally and/or physically) at a very young age. It leads one to view intimacy as an undesirable form of control.