Yes, I end up editing messages 4-5 times to try to get my tone across (I agonize over if my tone seems angry or something). Also, I end up reading messages as a

Yes, I end up editing messages 4-5 times to try to get my tone across (I agonize over if my tone seems angry or something). Also, I end up reading messages as angry or annoyed or mistaking the intention a lot. The best way I've found to deal with this is try to avoid talking about anything other than pure code outside of Zoom calls. But also, note that it's a mistake to call people for 1:1 meetings to discuss something. That's the way to madness.