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> My wife is pregnant and I need a job urgently > what I really wanted was work with C. I'd understand if the second sentence was "Where can I find a job that
by sshine 4y ago
> My wife is pregnant and I need a job urgently
> what I really wanted was work with C.
I'd understand if the second sentence was "Where can I find a job that (pays really well | allows for parental flexibility | has high security | ...)" -- what is it about your wife's pregnancy that triggers selecting a rare job you really wanted?
- barbarbar 4y agoThis is a very good question.
- dang 4y ago> triggers As I read the OP's sentence, there's such no implication of causality. This is the sort of extremely sensitive personal situation that requires a gentle touch. Internet comments about this kind of thing, including questions with assumptions baked into them, can easily come across as personal attacks. The burden is on the commenter to avoid that (https://hn.algolia.com/?dateRange=all&page=0&prefix=true&query=burden%20disambiguate%20by%3Adang&sort=byDate&type=comment https://hn.algolia.com/?dateRange=all&page=0&prefix=true&que...).