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I get where this comes from, and there's truth in it. But if you want to speak with people and connect with them (especially on longer journeys rather than a se
by tompagenet2 4y ago
I get where this comes from, and there's truth in it. But if you want to speak with people and connect with them (especially on longer journeys rather than a seven minute Tube journey) do try it. I regularly speak to people on train journeys, especially if I'm travelling alone, and have had great fun conversations and learnt about the person. If you're generally okay at picking up cues you'll be able to tell when people don't want to talk or when they're done talking for now. I live and was born in the UK. I suppose my point is don't let a sense people don't do it here hold you back: lots of people have said they've had real fun talking on an otherwise dull journey.
It's given me some great journeys and little windows into lives I haven't lived.
- nerdponx 4y agoThe thing about long-distance train and airplane conversations is that you have to be OK letting the conversation drop. If the other person wants to go back to their book, or wants to ponder something, you need to be perceptive to that and allow them to exit the conversation. Otherwise it will go from being friendly to making the other person feel trapped and annoyed.