It's an interesting point because in Japan, men, especially in Tokyo, Osaka, are much more ok with being a effeminate in a way I don't think was always the case

It's an interesting point because in Japan, men, especially in Tokyo, Osaka, are much more ok with being a effeminate in a way I don't think was always the case. Also being lazy, not really wanting to exercise etc is almost "cool". Japan also has an insanely low birth rate.