You need to go out and meet some people who are very different than you and spend a lot of time with them. More than one group of these ideally. I’m not sure wh

You need to go out and meet some people who are very different than you and spend a lot of time with them. More than one group of these ideally. I’m not sure what that is — what ideas or activities do you find scary but thrilling? You might need to go out and find out who you are by getting into a lot of situations It takes years