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Stop depending on humans, or particular humans that don't take responsibility. I suspect you really mean "guilt" when you say responsibility. I don't have too
by tenebrisalietum 4y ago
Stop depending on humans, or particular humans that don't take responsibility.
I suspect you really mean "guilt" when you say responsibility. I don't have too much of a problem with guilt because:
- I am willing to change perspectives/actions based on new information. So I might hate something at moment X, but stop when I discover new information in moment X+1. That's OK, you've only failed if you fail to adapt to new information.
- Adults can and should take care of themselves for the most part, so if someone is trying to trap me in codependency, I have to remind myself (and them) that I am not their parent and it is not my job to take care of them.
- You can't save the world, it's too big and you didn't make it in the first place. For any suffering you see, a thousand times more is happening that you don't. But you are not the owner of the world, just yourself. Let the creator of this world run it--who is not asking for your opinion anyway--and you take care of yourself.