On dealing with others: Don’t spend time around these people if you can help it. It will likely not be healthy for you in the long run. These types of people ra

On dealing with others: Don’t spend time around these people if you can help it. It will likely not be healthy for you in the long run. These types of people rarely meaningfully change and when they do it’s very slow and they must truly want to. If you cannot do that then make sure you have a social group you can spend time with who does take responsibility for their actions. If you have been in that sort of environment too long make sure you are measuring your worth and happiness on internal rather than external markers of success or value. Mindfulness meditation can help here as well.