I would say most theories are overly simplistic for classifying humans. However here are a few I've found helpful. 1. Your feelings typically say more about yo

I would say most theories are overly simplistic for classifying humans. However here are a few I've found helpful. 1. Your feelings typically say more about yourself than about another person. Use them for self reflection. 2. Feeling wronged when someone is an asshole is just. Learn to create boundaries and find ways to separate yourself from such people, both physically and emotionally. 3. Very few things are made better by being obsessively angry. Learn what is causing your anger, work through it and confront people you want to keep a relationship with. Most of all, try to always give others the benefit of the doubt, and if they ask forgiveness grant it. If they prove themselves repeatedly unreliable than form the appropriate boundaries, but still treat them with the respect that any person deserves.