> society will think you’re a cheap asshole who’s disrespecting your server Tipping in a restaurant where someone is waiting on you is different but, I have ze

> society will think you’re a cheap asshole who’s disrespecting your server Tipping in a restaurant where someone is waiting on you is different but, I have zero problems with refusing to tip at the register in retail stores, or for carry out orders at restaurants. I think we can collectively decide against that without fear of being ostracized by society. There's no "norm" right now that says I have to tip someone for a retail transaction, but there is pressure being put on us to normalize it so that businesses can save on labor expenses. Just say no.