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willhinsa is arguing exactly that in a sibling comment. It's a peculiar thing. I've seen guys get offended at the assertion that "guys" is gendered, and then

• version_five 4y ago
  There is no contradiction. Words have meanings that depend on context. Pretending that a word in different contexts must mean the same thing is disingenuous. "I only date guys" - unambiguously saying you go for the male gender "Hey guys" - a gender neutral greeting Dick can be a man's name, a detective, an anatomical reference, or an insult. Somehow we manage not to feign outrage at a Richard's nickname
  • klyrs 4y ago
    > Words have meanings that depend on context. Ah, see, nuance! So often when this topic comes up, there is none of that to be found! Hence, people asking obnoxious questions like "how many guys have you slept with." You see, there is a contradiction: people get offended when their words offend others, and they exhibit this offense with kneejerk responses. But what's happening there? The original speaker is getting offended by the others' words.