It has a lot to do with trust. Without trust, how can a relationship work? Also, do I want to find out twenty years later that I raised the child of another ma

It has a lot to do with trust. Without trust, how can a relationship work? Also, do I want to find out twenty years later that I raised the child of another man? No, I don't. Thirdly, getting blood tests that may turn out positive through no fault of my own is down right fucked up. And fourthly, it fucking hurts to be betrayed like that, regardless of how you judge the morals. Why is rape bad? Not because sex is bad, or forcing someone else to do something might be considered bad (parents force their children to do things all the time), but because it fucks the victim up. Cause and effect. Through observation it's easy to see that a person experiences extreme pain through the infidelity of his partner. Maybe some don't feel a thing, but I did. What frustrates me is that people see another causing this damage to another, and they don't give a shit. That's the crux of my problem. Complete and utter apathy for the suffering of another human being. Simply another form of complicity.