I'm deep into the Apple ecosystem. However my sentiment/thinking isn't far behind yours... I haven't made any serious moves to decouple and go independent and

I'm deep into the Apple ecosystem. However my sentiment/thinking isn't far behind yours... I haven't made any serious moves to decouple and go independent and self-hosted. Mostly due to the overheads of dealing with it all, and knowing I have other things to do that actually earn me money, My photos I do sync to multiple sources, and files are an easy one. I could ditch Apple and Google and survive. I'd have to take my medicine and it wouldn't be pleasant at first, but I could do it.