I don't know why the server choice is so downplayed when instances can block each other and if you end up on a "wrong one" (the peer pressure to avoid guilt by

I don't know why the server choice is so downplayed when instances can block each other and if you end up on a "wrong one" (the peer pressure to avoid guilt by association is really really strong if you look around) then you have to move around, your name changes etc. Feels like the single user self-hosting is the only way to go but I'm not sure most people would do that (let alone realize how the whole system works) And personally whole thing feels like a weird combination of reddit and Discord where you choose your sub/server then Twitter tbh