Exactly. In one of the parenting books I read it stated that we are inviting our child into our life, not the other way around. We already know what happens wh

Exactly. In one of the parenting books I read it stated that we are inviting our child into our life, not the other way around. We already know what happens when parents make their children a priority over everything else. I still plan to love my wife in 50 years and make friends I can invest in along the way, because one day my kid will be grown up and out on their own adventures.