> I find it a little sad that in order to disagree with me you have to be mean about it. I didn't find what was written to be mean. Eleanor Roosevelt said, "N

> I find it a little sad that in order to disagree with me you have to be mean about it. I didn't find what was written to be mean. Eleanor Roosevelt said, "No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." If you feel sad, that's fine, I just want to point out that this is a choice we all make. Sometimes there is wide agreement on what constitutes offense, and we use this to justify the secret removal of other people's content. But offense is inherently subjective, and such secretive removals rob us of chances to sharpen our counter speech. Rather than trying to make perceived hateful conversations secretly disappear, I think we are better off allowing each other to prepare counter arguments to offensive speech.