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It's socially frowned upon to say you want hookups, and (especially for women) saying that attracts lower quality hookups.
by lupire 4y ago
It's socially frowned upon to say you want hookups, and (especially for women) saying that attracts lower quality hookups.
- onetimeusename 4y agoya I think that is true. I doubt people planning this write it that bluntly. I don't know what men who plan this say and write, probably something vaguely sexual and provocative. I do see women write "not looking for anything serious" somewhat commonly. OTOH I think it goes nowhere if you write you want a serious stable relationship, maybe wife and children at some point. I am guessing but I think it scares some women off and it doesn't really build attraction with them. I have seen women write this in their profiles and when you mention you want something similar the conversation fizzles out real quick. I don't think there is any hard rule here though. A lot of factors can affect this.