I feel you. Over the past 3 years, I've had to face - New job (with the slow burning leetcode nonsense as a precursor) - Dad's court cases (he has a lot goin

I feel you. Over the past 3 years, I've had to face - New job (with the slow burning leetcode nonsense as a precursor) - Dad's court cases (he has a lot going on) - Wife's immigration woes (USCIS is hands down the WORST agency in the world) - Wife's job situation (made tenuous by USCIS) - Mom's covid - Dad's admission to hospital because of diabetes symptoms - 2 Failed IVF cycles - Inability to travel outside the country because US consulates don't function for my wife - Promotion and management issues - Inflation - Recession I am spent. Each one of the above is its own bureaucracy with insurance and/or slow government. US government truly is obnoxious to deal with. Honestly, I don't give two rats ass about work any longer. I used to be strategic and effective engineer. I don't think I can keep up with bureaucracy any longer. The only way I've managed myself through this is by sleeping well ( with a low-dose 1mg melatonin every night) and cutting off all social connections (which really sucks). I also try to do small tasks at a time but I don't know how much longer I can sustain this for.