+1 This is, in general, my experience of others and of myself. For me, the key is to recognise the signs in oneself that indicate brooding anxiety or situation

+1 This is, in general, my experience of others and of myself. For me, the key is to recognise the signs in oneself that indicate brooding anxiety or situations that are conflicting, of opinion, of strategy, of personality. Lists and critical introspection are effective ways for me to manage myself and help others, if possible and if necessary, to help avoid repeated failures and ill-considered decisions. It’s not easy, people fall easily into nostalgia, whilst ignoring complexity and consequences.