Same here. I was very much nurture first until i had kids and then it was absolutely crystal clear to me by the end of the first year that the truth is nature f

Same here. I was very much nurture first until i had kids and then it was absolutely crystal clear to me by the end of the first year that the truth is nature first. Nurture matters, but nature is the more powerful force. My first born was as much herself on the first day she was born as she is now at 7yo. The same for my son.