I had to re-read the post, because I misunderstood the opening statement. <<Generic advice is often useless without context. I agree. Some of the advice we ar

I had to re-read the post, because I misunderstood the opening statement. <<Generic advice is often useless without context. I agree. Some of the advice we are imbued with is in 'not great' category. The more annoying thing is that it does not get better ( I got ridiculously bad generic advice looking back in my 20s, but I only had enough knowledge in my 30s to know how bad it was ). <<I wish I'd had some training on how to care what other people think when I was in my teens. Likewise.