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The things that annoy you the most about your partner will be the same things that you will miss the most when they are gone. I try and reflect on this advice
by beachy 4y ago
The things that annoy you the most about your partner will be the same things that you will miss the most when they are gone.
I try and reflect on this advice when I am struggling to communicate with my wife. Having been divorced once I feel that a positive living relationship is always (well, usually maybe) within our own control.
- em-bee 4y agoonly when those things that annoy you are not also things that hurt you. but yes, it is good to reflect on that, and find out if something is actually a problem.
- darkerside 4y agoThat's the difference between pain and discomfort. Learning that difference physically and emotionally had been one of my biggest awakenings as a person.
- arcbyte 4y ago> always (well, usually maybe) Yes this. There is an always an exception out there but it is never you, so it really pays to think "always".
- pmoriarty 4y agoCompletely not my experience. What I miss the most are the best things about them, and the annoying things I've mostly forgotten or forgiven.
- blaser-waffle 4y ago> The things that annoy you the most about your partner will be the same things that you will miss the most when they are gone. absolutely not. don't miss any of the annoyances, and my life is immensely better. to quote someone else: "you know why divorces are so expensive? cuz they're worth it."