Yeah, completely agree on reducing gift giving as adults. I long ago made it clear to my family they should just donate to charity in my name at holidays excep

Yeah, completely agree on reducing gift giving as adults. I long ago made it clear to my family they should just donate to charity in my name at holidays except in rare cases when I specifically say I want something. Took some convincing, but now everyone sees it as normal and I think it’s fulfilling for everyone involved. I did the same for a work Secret Santa thing for several years and the givers who got me always appreciated that as well.