Well if your definition of 'classy' excludes from worthwhile companionship thousands of people of the 4 nations I've lived in, classes ranging from street kids

Well if your definition of 'classy' excludes from worthwhile companionship thousands of people of the 4 nations I've lived in, classes ranging from street kids to multimillionaires, co-workers in shops and factories and corporate offices, ages from the primary school kids I've taught to the 90 year olds I've been friends with, then you're working from a sadly narrow social palette. Perhaps your only experience of life is middle-class US sub/exburbia, but, truly, that group's local mores do not represent the universal cultural apex you think it does.