The idea that life has cheat codes that can just magically make things easier is a disservice to all the learning and the struggle that people have to go throug

The idea that life has cheat codes that can just magically make things easier is a disservice to all the learning and the struggle that people have to go through to actually figure things out. The one thing I have figured out is to stop forcing all the things(sometimes it's okay), life really does have a way of bringing things around eventually.