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Can they open source their algorithirm so I can figure out why I get no matches
by user- 4y ago
Can they open source their algorithirm so I can figure out why I get no matches
- oneoff786 4y ago
- logicalmonster 4y agoI realize that this isn't exactly Reddit, but good God man, has the capacity for a simple self-deprecating joke been lost here?
- nickmooney 4y agoThe issue isn't that it's self-deprecating, it's that it's not funny, esp. given the context. "Read the room" type of thing.
- dymk 4y agoSpeak for yourself, I found it chuckle worthy
- oneoff786 4y agoI don’t get it? Are they suggesting then that their normal photos are being tagged as lewd?
- deleted 4y ago[deleted]
- adrr 4y agoHave you tried asking people to send you pictures of hotdogs.
- hsavit1 4y agodoes anyone actually use bumble and enjoy it? serious question
- andirk 4y agoI got a girlfriend from it once.
- nl 4y agoSure, it's worked great for me. Couple of good long-term relationships and plenty of fun short term relationships too.
- astrange 4y agoMy coworkers tell me it's the only app that worked for them. I'm not in the market so can't comment myself.
- petesergeant 4y agohad a great time on it, culminating in meeting my wife
- probably_wrong 4y agoBased on conversations with (male) friends, it seems to be the place for those who can't deal with Tinder anymore. Personally I'm back to OkCupid - it may not have the number of users the others do, but at least I now get to know something about potential matches other than 5 pictures and that they enjoy traveling.
- vidarh 4y agoHave had some success with it in the past. Less casual hookup focused than Tinder, which can be good or bad depending on what you're after.
- smt88 4y agoDating apps are tailored to people in the top X% of attractiveness. Don't take it personally. Most people aren't successful on them, even the ones who get a lot of matches.
- godmode2019 4y agoI'm relevantly good looking, no problem with getting a beautiful woman IRL, but on dating apps I get no matches. Or if I do its girls who are either average or tinder addicts who everyone should avoid. My working theory is on a dating app woman have unlimited access, so tend to go torwards the top 99.9% of men. Solution: Shadow ban hyper attractive people. Solution 2: Only show people a similar level of attractiveness as yourself.
- borissk 4y agoYour theory makes no sense. First you obviously mean the top 0.1% of men. Second the top 0.1% of men can't date more than a few percent of the women. Much more likely you don't put enough effort into your profile or you have something on, that is a red flag for most women.
- frontier 4y agoYou are 100% correct, unsuccessful guys need to seek help and there are paid services out there. Or speak to a few women on these platforms (chicken-egg I know) and you will be told what others are doing that is turning them off. You need to treat this for what it is, marketing. You don't just put up your first attempt and say women aren't into me. You need to iterate and experiment. I know, it's hard work, 90% of guys won't put in the effort, they will just complain they aren't in the top 0.1% in attractiveness.
- godmode2019 4y agoYes I did mean the top 0.1% of men. I disagree with that the top man can not date more than a few. A single woman needs a romantic partner let's say ever three months, a man can have one every day. We see this in gay men having 500+ average sexual partners. Gay men can have sex as much as they want, because of access. Top 0.1% of men can also have sex when ever they want, they are getting constant matches with 6,7,8 level woman. Well below their level, because its easier to get people below your level into bed without courting. They have sex, he doesn't call her back, she is mad at men for another three months. A few men can soak up all of the above average woman, considering they are on a bell curve and are rare them self. Only a subset of people are even on these dating apps. Average looking people don't have this problem, because they are happy with matching other average woman who the top men are not interested in. Summary: top men can date below their own level because a 7 woman, three below them is still very beautiful. But a 7 man can't date three below their own level because a 4 is not attractive and not worth the time using a app for.