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Wait. Why are you stripping away socialization again? Those who started WFH during the pandemic may not realize, but WFH stands for work from anywhere. You may

Wait. Why are you stripping away socialization again? Those who started WFH during the pandemic may not realize, but WFH stands for work from anywhere. You may have needed to lock yourself in your bedroom during the height of the pandemic, but those days are coming to a close. Venture out into the world. If you have no existing friend group that wants to work alongside you, head to the coffeeshop, the bar, the park, the library. You'll soon find people to socialize with.

rafaelero 4y ago
I think I am not making myself very clear. It's not a question of having or not friends to socialize with after work. It's about socializing DURING workhours. Even on WFH, we are still working the usual 8h. And I feel like I am losing a ton of opportunities to engage in meaningful conversations when I am alone at home or at a cafe. The question then is: how do we create environments that allow these types working hours interactions in a WFH setting?
- randomdata 4y ago
  > It's not a question of having or not friends to socialize with after work. It's about socializing DURING workhours. You have made yourself clear. We are talking about during work hours. That is the very freedom that WFH allows. Again, WFH is short for work from anywhere. > how do we create environments that allow these types working hours interactions in a WFH setting? Why do you think they don't already exist? I have WFH for 20 years now and have never found much difficulty to find people to work with, save the pandemic period. And I am based in rural area. Imagine how much easier it would be to find people to work with in a city! As I alluded to earlier, I think the pandemic being the introduction to WFH for a lot of people has skewed perceptions. They went WFH because they had to stay home alone. But those days are quickly moving behind us. You can work anywhere again now. Venture out into the world. There are people out there. If the cafe isn't working, try another venue. You are only limited by your ingenuity.
  - tomduncalf 4y ago
    > if all else fails, get a second job that is in front of people and also do your WFH job there This sounds like a very convoluted workaround for something which, for some people, is solved by having an office to go into. I think what is very clear every time this WFH topic comes up is that different people have very different strong opinions on it, which is fine. I wish people would respect each other’s opinions a bit more though. For some people, working from an office works well from them. Personally, having worked from home for three years (2 pandemic, 1 in a remote job), I’ve found I really miss that “casual” social interaction with people at work and I don’t believe I could replace that by going into a cafe - maybe it’s a personality thing and/or a location/cultural thing but it’s very rare for me to just strike up meaningful conversation in a cafe here in London. Maybe a coworking space would be better but I still think there’s a lot of value to social interactions with your actual colleagues. Others obviously feel differently, whether that’s because they want to live somewhere outside of a major metropolitan area, or because they don’t enjoy that kind of interaction, or whatever, and that’s also fine. I guess the challenge is how companies reconcile the two into something that works. “Hybrid” only works if you have a decent number of people actually coming in to the office otherwise yeah, you might as well just go to a coworking space. I suspect we’ll see companies starting to align more to one model or the other as time progresses, and I think that’s fine - people can choose companies whos model works for them.
    - randomdata 4y ago
      > This sounds like a very convoluted workaround for something which, for some people, is solved by having an office to go into. Not having a defined office to go into is the apparent problem, not the solution. > I wish people would respect each other’s opinions a bit more though. Where does this come from? I've never seen anyone's opinion disrespected as it pertains to this conversation. In fact, the beauty of WFH is that it gives you the full freedom to form your own opinions. Want to work at home? Do it! Want to work in an office? Do it! Want to work from the middle of a field? Do it! Want to work at sea? Do it! Nobody cares. The world is your oyster. > I guess the challenge is how companies reconcile the two into something that works. Does matchmaking need to be a business concern? There were periods of history where transportation, housing, even shopping, was dictated by a company but we eventually move away from those in favour of personal choice. All arguably practical necessities in their time, but considered a hinderance of freedom once the landscape changed. Is matchmaking not just that again? WFH means work from anywhere. It does not preclude working in an office. But if you are respecting of opinion, as was asserted as being important earlier, then offices will only come into being if people wish to be a part of them. That does not require a third-party middleman to be involved. Workers who want to work in offices can easily coordinate that kind of thing themselves, just as they've come to coordinate transportation, housing, and shopping.

rafaelero 4y ago

I think I am not making myself very clear. It's not a question of having or not friends to socialize with after work. It's about socializing DURING workhours. Even on WFH, we are still working the usual 8h. And I feel like I am losing a ton of opportunities to engage in meaningful conversations when I am alone at home or at a cafe. The question then is: how do we create environments that allow these types working hours interactions in a WFH setting?

randomdata 4y ago
> It's not a question of having or not friends to socialize with after work. It's about socializing DURING workhours. You have made yourself clear. We are talking about during work hours. That is the very freedom that WFH allows. Again, WFH is short for work from anywhere. > how do we create environments that allow these types working hours interactions in a WFH setting? Why do you think they don't already exist? I have WFH for 20 years now and have never found much difficulty to find people to work with, save the pandemic period. And I am based in rural area. Imagine how much easier it would be to find people to work with in a city! As I alluded to earlier, I think the pandemic being the introduction to WFH for a lot of people has skewed perceptions. They went WFH because they had to stay home alone. But those days are quickly moving behind us. You can work anywhere again now. Venture out into the world. There are people out there. If the cafe isn't working, try another venue. You are only limited by your ingenuity.
- tomduncalf 4y ago
  > if all else fails, get a second job that is in front of people and also do your WFH job there This sounds like a very convoluted workaround for something which, for some people, is solved by having an office to go into. I think what is very clear every time this WFH topic comes up is that different people have very different strong opinions on it, which is fine. I wish people would respect each other’s opinions a bit more though. For some people, working from an office works well from them. Personally, having worked from home for three years (2 pandemic, 1 in a remote job), I’ve found I really miss that “casual” social interaction with people at work and I don’t believe I could replace that by going into a cafe - maybe it’s a personality thing and/or a location/cultural thing but it’s very rare for me to just strike up meaningful conversation in a cafe here in London. Maybe a coworking space would be better but I still think there’s a lot of value to social interactions with your actual colleagues. Others obviously feel differently, whether that’s because they want to live somewhere outside of a major metropolitan area, or because they don’t enjoy that kind of interaction, or whatever, and that’s also fine. I guess the challenge is how companies reconcile the two into something that works. “Hybrid” only works if you have a decent number of people actually coming in to the office otherwise yeah, you might as well just go to a coworking space. I suspect we’ll see companies starting to align more to one model or the other as time progresses, and I think that’s fine - people can choose companies whos model works for them.
  - randomdata 4y ago
    > This sounds like a very convoluted workaround for something which, for some people, is solved by having an office to go into. Not having a defined office to go into is the apparent problem, not the solution. > I wish people would respect each other’s opinions a bit more though. Where does this come from? I've never seen anyone's opinion disrespected as it pertains to this conversation. In fact, the beauty of WFH is that it gives you the full freedom to form your own opinions. Want to work at home? Do it! Want to work in an office? Do it! Want to work from the middle of a field? Do it! Want to work at sea? Do it! Nobody cares. The world is your oyster. > I guess the challenge is how companies reconcile the two into something that works. Does matchmaking need to be a business concern? There were periods of history where transportation, housing, even shopping, was dictated by a company but we eventually move away from those in favour of personal choice. All arguably practical necessities in their time, but considered a hinderance of freedom once the landscape changed. Is matchmaking not just that again? WFH means work from anywhere. It does not preclude working in an office. But if you are respecting of opinion, as was asserted as being important earlier, then offices will only come into being if people wish to be a part of them. That does not require a third-party middleman to be involved. Workers who want to work in offices can easily coordinate that kind of thing themselves, just as they've come to coordinate transportation, housing, and shopping.