This has been my experience as well, both individually and on a team. Everyone says it's fine as long as you show restraint and stay within bounds you collectiv

This has been my experience as well, both individually and on a team. Everyone says it's fine as long as you show restraint and stay within bounds you collectively find comfortable/manageable. In practice, we all reach a point of understanding/comfort that doesn't stay with you on reading later, even by the author.