It's still a tradeoff, in modern countries, the state slowly replaces older structures (like family). It's safer. But little by little, you end up with people

It's still a tradeoff, in modern countries, the state slowly replaces older structures (like family). It's safer. But little by little, you end up with people who don't do much than living outside of big cities, commuting back and forth, going back home to watch Netflix and order some food. Working conditions in SEAsia are still not as good. But it's affordable to eat outside, it's affordable to enjoy a lot of social time with family and friends. Friends and family, colleagues, low paid workers will meet together several times a week. I am from France, my mother used to be a factory worker, she had more money, but I don't think she was happier. I am pretty sure it was the opposite actually. She felt a lot more isolated.