Wow, that hit hard "I'm somehow deficient for not making millions when "everyone else" is". This the same sentence/phrase all me relatives keep saying to me. Th

Wow, that hit hard "I'm somehow deficient for not making millions when "everyone else" is". This the same sentence/phrase all me relatives keep saying to me. They all think that, since I'm a Software Engineer, I should be making millions, or at least well above average, and if I'm not then I'm not trying hard enough.