Great, so now you're surveilling your family. It's still a violation of privacy, perhaps even moreso because you, an intimate, now have a much wider view of you

Great, so now you're surveilling your family. It's still a violation of privacy, perhaps even moreso because you, an intimate, now have a much wider view of your family's behavior. It's weird and unnatural. And you may say today that you're a beneficent broker of this information, but tomorrow when your wife or your children in some manner act aberrantly - viola your opinion suddenly changes - you'll leverage it for some self-concerned motive. At least with a third party monitoring shit there's not such a considerable conflict of interest. But none of it is really reasonable. And criminals will adapt - they have way more options than you do.