> I just take it as judgment > fighting bad conversation flow control > hassle Something to keep in mind on topics like this is that neither of these two sty

> I just take it as judgment > fighting bad conversation flow control > hassle Something to keep in mind on topics like this is that neither of these two styles is bad or wrong - they are merely different; your perfectly-valid communication style can be just as irritating and off-putting to someone else as theirs is to you. Heads isn't better than tails, you know?