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My own experience is: having 2 or more kids under 5 is just too much work for two parents. You simply need more adults helping, period. You can either send 'e
by Taikonerd 4y ago
My own experience is: having 2 or more kids under 5 is just too much work for two parents. You simply need more adults helping, period. You can either send 'em to daycare, get relatives to pitch in, or hire a nanny / babysitter / au pair.
Don't feel weird or guilty when you do this -- throughout history, children have never been raised solely by their parents.
- v-erne 4y agoWhat was that saying? "It takes a village" ? I think our individualistic culture is getting in way - somehow now everyone behaves like the new motto is "Your children, Your problem" (including me, but I personally am not very fond of children, so at least I'm not a hypocrite).