Was burned out at 21. Took me a few years to figure out some lingering childhood trauma was pulling me down. Came to term by accepting that some things I can't

Was burned out at 21. Took me a few years to figure out some lingering childhood trauma was pulling me down. Came to term by accepting that some things I can't change, and figured out that control upon people should not be desired (got help to get to that). Then decided I should only pursue things in life that I love, whatever that is. Like many said, caring less can be good, but only if that means you don't take things at a personal level. It's never about ourselves, it's about the others. Greatest truth I've ever learned. Overall, a great hack in life is to develop some faith in the fact that things work out by themselves over time.