When my boys were babies my mom said enjoy every minute because you’ll blink and it’ll be over. I see what she means now, my oldest (only about 13) spends a lot

When my boys were babies my mom said enjoy every minute because you’ll blink and it’ll be over. I see what she means now, my oldest (only about 13) spends a lot of time with his friends but with me too. My youngest (10) is still my shadow and we’re constantly engaged. However, the writing is on the wall that they are their own person. I got about 6 to 7 years left and am already trying to start dealing with that fact hah.